https://www.architectofchange.life/blog daily 1.0 2026-03-21 https://www.architectofchange.life/blog/triangular-gaslighting monthly 0.5 2026-03-21 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/685d3808-f657-45c9-903f-f954957358c0/hans-eiskonen-tmHzuxeZUAQ-unsplash.jpg Architect of Change - Blog - Triangular Gaslighting - Make it stand out Some Gas-Lighting with the Kids….(and “SEO”-ed already). Photo by Hans Eiskonen Unsplash https://www.architectofchange.life/blog/unseen-and-unseeing monthly 0.5 2026-03-20 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/c2fdb21c-baa8-42d2-855a-0962ca5f5bc7/I+have+been+unseen.png Architect of Change - Blog - Unseen (and Unseeing) - Make it stand out Image made with the machines with my writing as the prompt. https://www.architectofchange.life/blog/systemic-collusion-with-an-unwitting-therapist monthly 0.5 2026-03-16 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/fafa7f63-ce1a-479b-8444-eeb413a4786f/vitaly-gariev-RqR2pnTpmHA-unsplash.jpg Architect of Change - Blog - ‘Systemic Collusion’ with an unwitting therapist - Make it stand out Photo by Vitaly Gariev on Unsplash https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/b200b4fa-b15e-4ae6-a41e-52cdb3c92e88/The+Weaponization+Table.png Architect of Change - Blog - ‘Systemic Collusion’ with an unwitting therapist - Make it stand out Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference. https://www.architectofchange.life/blog/the-snitch monthly 0.5 2026-03-16 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/b2ae42a6-c1c9-4cc2-a33b-c2c4b9d64693/SNITCH.jpg Architect of Change - Blog - THE “LITTLE SNITCH” - Make it stand out Isolate them in silos. But what happens when they talk? Make them a “Dirty Snitch” https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/4120a79c-98d5-4f53-b0af-06e041a5dc68/Partental+Abuse+Attack+.jpg Architect of Change - Blog - THE “LITTLE SNITCH” - Make it stand out Thankfully Mia knows how to hold her head high and not stand for it. https://www.architectofchange.life/blog/so-im-not-going-to-party monthly 0.5 2026-03-11 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/4e1e7b12-7ee7-42e4-aa88-46d263431691/Maya_Angelou_Believe_Them.png Architect of Change - Blog - So, I’m Not Going to the Party - Make it stand out Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference. https://www.architectofchange.life/blog/on-frequency-amp-energy monthly 0.5 2026-02-28 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/074fd7fd-cf4a-4b15-94df-78d49dc0bcc6/OM-Circumpunct.png Architect of Change - Blog - On Frequency & Energy - Make it stand out Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference. https://www.architectofchange.life/blog/the-tree-remembers-while-the-axe-forgets monthly 0.5 2026-02-28 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/c0c6b587-f84f-4227-afdb-6fafc53d6422/processed_17574.jpg Architect of Change - Blog - The Tree Remembers, While the Axe Forgets. That’s me, the tree, still standing having absorbed many blows - But not any more. It’s time for the Axe to see. https://www.architectofchange.life/blog/and-heres-one-about-the-father-in-law monthly 0.5 2026-02-27 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/0d286972-9430-4491-9370-6e470238bbd9/Concrete+Stairs-alan-angelats-ijBxu-iRJUM-unsplash.jpg Architect of Change - Blog - And Here’s One About The Father-in-law - Make it stand out It’s all about concrete stairs and lifts - Their Construction and Destruction! Photo by Alan Angelats on Unsplash, Oh, and the UnControlled Demolition of Family Relationships… https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/ffca786d-60f6-4245-aa45-83b93833a0c9/Family-Demolition-roger-starnes-sr-buvOipu4pLI-unsplash.jpg Architect of Change - Blog - And Here’s One About The Father-in-law - Make it stand out The Family of Origin Helped Make Mary. 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Alone but surrounded by water. Home. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/b88d5834-68f1-4243-a6db-4484dfbc8606/Prefire+3.jpg Architect of Change - Blog - Water & Fire - A Neptunian Ritual - Make it stand out Potential Energy - A Store. A Tree that remembered the strike of the Axe. Alchemy to come. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/77021a16-deb4-46e4-add5-0deef8416fb5/Setting+1.jpg Architect of Change - Blog - Water & Fire - A Neptunian Ritual - Make it stand out A Liminal Place of energy where water meets shore; water meets sky, light meets both; man-made meets the rawness of nature. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/35140beb-043b-4215-a45d-554e8d17d0e5/Prefire+4.jpg Architect of Change - Blog - Water & Fire - A Neptunian Ritual - Make it stand out Inching closer. Anticipating. A container of memory and transmutation. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/a183014e-9e3b-4db6-ab26-718362360f00/Tree+1.jpg Architect of Change - Blog - Water & Fire - A Neptunian Ritual - Make it stand out And this Tree watched silently as the Tree that met the Axe gave of itself. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/999d7c20-062c-4599-a3a0-0f12dcb92852/Fire+1.jpg Architect of Change - Blog - Water & Fire - A Neptunian Ritual - Make it stand out And so a spark of Imagination caught hold, and began to Feel what could Be. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/0d2d2871-684c-4b2c-924a-9c0897db01d9/Fire+2.jpg Architect of Change - Blog - Water & Fire - A Neptunian Ritual - Make it stand out Timid at first, always wanting to Fit In - To be the “Nice Guy” - But this can’t hold back. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/39b91fb1-e01d-4182-b1b1-309350e26535/Fire+3.jpg Architect of Change - Blog - Water & Fire - A Neptunian Ritual - Make it stand out Revealing My True Self now. Growing in Strength. Reaching outward. No more fear. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/9c68e27b-cb49-4cbe-8317-2a4e4fbedb17/Lantern.png Architect of Change - Blog - Water & Fire - A Neptunian Ritual - Make it stand out And then by chance more Fire flew by - Like it wished to show the way - A way Beyond Fear. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/21fc7a5b-b9c8-41e5-9040-385f37972a5d/Fire+and+water+2.jpg Architect of Change - Blog - Water & Fire - A Neptunian Ritual - Make it stand out Being lifted towards the Edge. Thinking of Letting Go. But how? Water means Certain Death https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/991d0b6d-86a9-44d2-ab3c-e757a615b76e/Let+Go+1.jpg Architect of Change - Blog - Water & Fire - A Neptunian Ritual - Make it stand out And then I did Let Fully Go - From an edge that can never be grasped again. Forgiveness. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/455c7f26-d03d-4723-82fc-edd9a729ade6/Mountain+Bike+Fire.png Architect of Change - Blog - Water & Fire - A Neptunian Ritual - Make it stand out And Biking is in My Soul - The cycles of my life, Revolutionary Movement. (Video-Click Image) https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/6e87f0b2-2b57-4ebf-aa0f-1f59ac43ff86/The+Transition.png Architect of Change - Blog - Water & Fire - A Neptunian Ritual - Make it stand out The Inevitable Transition - Letting go of Fear - Fire consumed by Water - The Ritual completeness of Death and Rebirth. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/ac732689-0cfd-4cf4-ac26-969308483166/Pierce_Doubt_Fire_And+Narcissist_Wife.png Architect of Change - Blog - Water & Fire - A Neptunian Ritual - Make it stand out (And, I've just realised, Mrs. Doubtfire. Mrs. effin' DOUBT-FIRE! And what that wife did to that family! You cannot make sh1t like this up! Not even in Hollywierd) Pierce and Robin.... And the “Narc”… https://www.architectofchange.life/blog/mary-amp-john-a-bit-of-a-saga monthly 0.5 2026-02-01 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/db2bd825-be20-4d23-bc7b-0f7d933bfa33/John_and_Mary.gif Architect of Change - Blog - Mary & John - A bit of a saga - Make it stand out Everyone thinks it so it must be true… https://www.architectofchange.life/blog/still-looking-for-milk-in-the-hardware-store monthly 0.5 2026-01-30 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/0afe6380-75e1-471e-9ef8-3e7d6d1eea02/Milk+in+the+hardware+store.jpeg Architect of Change - Blog - Still Looking for Milk in the Hardware Store? - Make it stand out Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference. https://www.architectofchange.life/blog/how-to-be-an-architect-of-change monthly 0.5 2026-01-21 https://www.architectofchange.life/blog/an-open-secret monthly 0.5 2026-01-21 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/1768986190256-32Y2S539D04QRVE64QWM/00.jpg Architect of Change - Blog - An Open Secret https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/1768986190555-JTBUW5MI6D0P4EOKL8AV/01-A.jpg Architect of Change - Blog - An Open Secret https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/1768986193014-CDK9JVWJDBJ6VC5DACYU/01-B.jpg Architect of Change - Blog - An Open Secret https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/1768986193135-JJ1YGO5SUP1QS5VNJ0MP/02-B.jpg Architect of Change - Blog - An Open Secret https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/1768986196633-JUNRGM40K44T43GEHQX1/03-B.jpg Architect of Change - Blog - An Open Secret https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/1768986196762-23OM8WU15MV4TR4U29A9/04-B.jpg Architect of Change - Blog - An Open Secret https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/1768986200097-9JV6QO0BHPJKAHUA2NQW/05-B.jpg Architect of Change - Blog - An Open Secret https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/1768986200271-C9OBLMKLQJAMG55FHDCF/06-B.jpg Architect of Change - Blog - An Open Secret https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/1768986202574-UO4I93WU3SMD92MYQYGE/07-B.jpg Architect of Change - Blog - An Open Secret https://www.architectofchange.life/blog/not-about-grey-rocks monthly 0.5 2026-01-21 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/8f11f926-a50d-456c-b9a6-b841a84c1f57/raul-kozenevski-8aXtvYHBP90-unsplash.jpg Architect of Change - Blog - Not About Grey Rocks - Make it stand out Standing there, appearing to let it all wash by - but yet constantly changing. Image by Raul Kozenevski on Unsplash. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/134a6b25-afad-41d3-91f6-0b974485e9a5/tony-wallstrom-IzCdKnK42rg-unsplash.jpg Architect of Change - Blog - Not About Grey Rocks - Make it stand out Still standing unmoved - Tony Wallström on Unsplash. Reynisfjara black beach on the south coast of Iceland beside Durholaey cliff https://www.architectofchange.life/blog/4vzedkdraocec0wrv3bvvw2p1qucwx monthly 0.5 2026-02-10 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/8442f41d-5a8e-4c01-9702-587d5225a472/book_on_my_Dads_shelf.jpg Architect of Change - Blog - To Be Read. - Make it stand out In the meantime, here’s one I found on my Dad’s shelves. (That’s a half-joke…. It was really “Parenting the Strong-Willed Child” that was the dog-eared one!) https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/1770721580212-BG1JM8F7AJMMPCX5T9QJ/The_creative_act_book.jpg Architect of Change - Blog - To Be Read. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/1770721631692-TJ0PSUNFHOSWWZWIBYA7/Screenshot+2026-02-10+at+11.01.56.png Architect of Change - Blog - To Be Read. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/1770721646277-IGB8IVKW7JYHO8HR3491/Rick-Rubin-Featured-Image.png Architect of Change - Blog - To Be Read. https://www.architectofchange.life/blog/blog-post-one-2lyn2 monthly 0.5 2026-02-13 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/89bf4f5f-6ceb-4c7c-8e78-658f85cc7121/Blank+Page+Fear.jpg Architect of Change - Blog - On Starting Somewhere - With Gratitude The fear of the blank page - Whether writing or designing… https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/9c4076df-eb78-4871-842c-18ea95bcd9e7/Blank+Page+Enso+Circle.jpg Architect of Change - Blog - On Starting Somewhere - With Gratitude - Make it stand out Making the first marks on a blank page - Enso https://www.architectofchange.life/blog/blog-post-two-8k9pw monthly 0.5 2026-01-17 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/396fb71d-e8a1-4b71-8145-0a993eae7427/Clubed+to+Death+Lola.jpg Architect of Change - Blog - A Note about Copyright © and A.I. - Make it stand out The soundtrack kicks ass - Click the image for the Tracklist. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/2a4b5227-6bb5-44b0-9e91-7e59bc7e5c59/authentic_intelligence.jpg Architect of Change - Blog - A Note about Copyright © and A.I. - Make it stand out Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/69618d5b05573c4cdf7ec642/3af3866e-37d3-4730-a984-525bcff36f7c/Copywrong+to+copywriter.jpg Architect of Change - Blog - A Note about Copyright © and A.I. - Make it stand out Tait Ischia - Copywrong to Copywriter. https://www.architectofchange.life/blog/tag/Covert+Narcissist monthly 0.5 https://www.architectofchange.life/blog/tag/Relationships monthly 0.5 https://www.architectofchange.life/blog/tag/HSP monthly 0.5 https://www.architectofchange.life/blog/tag/histrionic monthly 0.5 https://www.architectofchange.life/blog/tag/cluster+b+personality+disorders monthly 0.5 https://www.architectofchange.life/blog/tag/Highly+sensiitive monthly 0.5 https://www.architectofchange.life/blog/tag/Codependant monthly 0.5 https://www.architectofchange.life/blog/tag/INFJ monthly 0.5 https://www.architectofchange.life/blog/tag/Empath monthly 0.5 https://www.architectofchange.life/contact daily 0.75 2026-01-17 https://www.architectofchange.life/about daily 0.75 2026-01-17